One of the most effective ways to go a new direction, and recreate your life story is to get to know yourself better. Creating a positive life usually only happens the moment we choose to take a hard look inside ourselves for answers. Many of us go through life being told who we are from every source imaginable, directly and indirectly. We enter this world with no concept of who we are or why were here.
Soon afterwards our life becomes a living story that reflects how we feel about ourselves, and others. We become a living open book to the outside world whether we like it or not. People read the headlines every day. Our character speaks volumes about who we are inwardly. The outside world is only a self reflection of the inward heart.
Research has shown that most of us simply don’t like ourselves not to mention realize our inner potential. We are uniquely created with unimaginable power, and potential. We can rewrite our life story at any time, and create any life we envision. Yet for many of us we never get to experience that awaking moment when everything changes for the better. To experience that driving force that motivates us inwardly to get up each day with a feeling of expectation. To gain a deeper understanding of ourselves with more clarity, and surety. Do you want more positive things to happen in your daily life? The more you get to know yourself the easier it is to have success in whatever you do.
Get to know yourself better internally
Getting to know yourself better at a deeper level is not what most average people experience. In fact quite opposite. Without a deeper understanding of who you are it’s easy to lose sight of your intention, purpose, and direction. To accept mediocrity without any expectation that things can get better. Under this frame of mind we can easily find ourselves feeling out of place in most social circles unable to relate, or connect with other people.
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When you get to know yourself better internally it will save you a lifetime of disappointments. Everything you think, know, and believe is a mirrored reflection of how you think about yourself. We are all curious how people see us, and it can be both healthy, and unhealthy. If you don’t like your life story then change it. How? Despite your circumstance it’s never too late to start over, and recreate your life story.
How outside influence can make you better
Outside influence is usually not the best place to find out more about ourselves, or even what others might think about us, but we do need a circle of friends who pull no punches. They tell us exactly what we don’t want to hear. These are generally those who know us best, and see through our charm, our weakness, or anything other flaws we may have with a critical eye. These people are actually necessary because they help sharpen our people skills, but they don’t define us, or truly know us deep down inwardly. Only you have the power to truly get to know yourself better, and the more you do, the more success you’ll gain in life.
know yourself better by defining who you are
Whenever you know yourself better inwardly outside noise will have less impact on your emotional state. Before accepting constructive criticism as fact, always consider the source. For example: is this coming from coworkers who don’t know you personally, or from family and friends who care with good intentions, but don’t understand a new direction you’re taking. This is why it’s so important to know yourself better intimately so you’re not swayed by empty words that mislead, or misrepresent who you are as a person. Most of us know exactly what that feels like.
What most people think about you
Believe me ….. what most people think about you is not near as important as what you think about yourself. Make it a point to know your self-identity, and be wise enough to accept constructive criticism even if you feel it’s unfair. But there is a limit to this. Only you have the capacity to know your identity better than anyone else.
Imagine if your whole life experience was what others thought about you? Yet for many people this is exactly what leads to a confused life with no purpose, or direction. Knowing your identity will give you inner strength, and insight to every challenge you’ll ever face.
“People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates. Basically we are all looking for someone who knows who we are and will break it to us gently”. Robert Brault.
Developing a deeper understanding of yourself
Developing a deeper understanding of yourself is critical in the growing stages of defining yourself, and creating a better life. Whenever you define who you are others around may not always like it, or accept it. Living in your own skin will cause a shift in the way others perceive and treat you, especially those who have dominated over you in the past. It will be much harder to be controlled when you are defined, and confident.
The more in tune you are inwardly the less outer influence will have dominion over your life. At this point your life story is now being shaped but so is your wisdom. Early influences can have lasting effects, but a definite purpose, with determination can overcome any challenge, and shape our destiny.
Knowing your inner call
We must learn to listen to that inner call that vibrates truth in every cell of our body. That gut feeling that assures us we’re doing the right thing regardless of how it may seem to the outside world. It’s easy to define ourselves when everything feels perfect, but what about when it’s not? What about when everything around us is literally falling apart? That’s when you’re actually defining who you are, and building strength…. It’s like your character is being crushed, pressurized like a diamond before its beauty is revealed. This is the moment when life takes on a whole new shape, as you endeavor to get to know yourself better with a deeper level of understanding.
Living life on purpose
Don’t be tossed like a leaf in the wind without reason and purpose. If you spend your life trying to please everybody you’ll never experience happiness, or have the capacity to define yourself as a human being.
When you look inside yourself what do you see? Most people in general don’t know who they are themselves, so can they tell you who you are? Only you can answer that. There are several problems when you look to other people for an opinion about yourself. We live in a materialistic world, and people naturally try to define you based on your possessions, and outward appearance. (Examples)
- Your career: the first thing many people want to know about you is your business, or career. Basically how much your worth.
- Your appearance: Try putting on some old wrinkled clothes, and going into public to see if people treat you the same.
- Where you live: Unfortunately people may determine your worth by where you live.
- The car you drive: if you’re driving an old beat up car you’re probably not going to be very popular.
- Your popularity: Many of us are defined in social circles by how popular we are.
This is not necessarily a bad thing, but it does put things into perspective.
Recreate your life story
Basically we are conditioned to keep up with the Jones. Ask yourself this?Are you some kind of robotic cookie cutter humanoid living on a planet, or created by God with unique attributes, and extraordinary potential. I believe the latter is much more accurate. And his love for each of us has no end. You can recreate your story, and reclaim your life passion with confidence.
No person on earth has the power, or insight to define who you are. The pen that writes your story is in your own hand, and knowing who holds it may take a lifetime. These are only the basics to get to know yourself better, and rewrite your legacy, your life story, and your ultimate destiny.
Hopefully these tips & techniques will add value on your personal journey toward a better life. We should always live life on purpose, and find out what puts energy in our bones. This is what makes you get up each day excited to be alive. Start your day with purpose, and intention in everything you do. Develop a dream, and everything around you will have new meaning.
Doing this will develop more confidence as you grow, and get to know yourself better. Soon you’ll be well on your way to living a dream with intention, purpose, and direction as your life story unfolds.